Bad news, One year on......

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Re: Bad news

Post by jen » Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:28 pm

Many, many thanks everyone for your kind comments, it kept me going reading them while waiting for news. It's also astounding the support one gets from a car forum, even from those who haven't met either of us! Thank You.

Finally got some news at 6.45pm, he was taken to recovery and it seemed the op went well, an hour and a half later we were taken upstairs to the High Dependancy ward. He has lost so much blood that they want to keep a close eye on him overnight. They are also making sure his heart has not been dmamaged as he lost so much blood. I will phone them in the morning to see how he is and hopefully they will tell me if he is getting moved tomorrow (will be to the Plastics ward (48)). Andy, I think tomorrow will be a bit soon, but maybe on Thurs? I have you're number and I also have Alans phone should anyone wish to contact me and don't have my number. I think from now on we will be 'getting a mannie in' and I'l be throwing that angle grinder in the bin tomorrow!!

Anyway, The Dr there told us they had repaired his artery (using a bit of his vein in his right leg), they had also repaired the nerves that were damaged and he also damaged among other tissue and muscles, his bicep, which were all fixed back together again. When we got to see him, he was very drowsy and nauseous with the morphine/anesthesea etc....

He was getting a little frustrated (in his own angry way :lol: ) with his oxygen mask, his bed not set up to his liking, and that he somehow had a bandage on his leg when he didn't even cut his leg!!! But he was moving his fingers in his hand and he had feeling in his hand, which is great. His lower arm is sliced open for now as they dont want the pressure building up in his arm, so will hopefully be going to get it stitched up on Wed. We eventually left the hospital at half 9, 7 and a half hours after I arrived.

At this point, I owe all my love and thanks in the world to Ali C and Nicola who have been there for me all day. From as soon as I arrived in the hospital, Nic came to be with me, she made me eat and drink, and listen to me rambling on and stayed with me even after Alans folks arrived. Then she and Ali went to my house and sorted out the cats and cleaned my house for me (no easy task when the housework hadn't been done in days, dirty washing lying around and the hallway a bloodbath). I really am lucky to not only still have a husband after such a horrific accident, but to have friends as amazing as them. I owe them big style.

Thank you so much Ali and Nicola.

Im off to try and get some sleep, I still cant get the images of him lying on the floor turing pale, with blood sprouting everywhere, and his screaming out of my head. Sleeping pills for me tonight I think!!

Will update again once I find out any more info.

Thanks again everyone, it really means a lot to me.

Jen
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Re: Bad news

Post by DDtB » Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:31 pm

Glad to hear things look a lot better than they did a few hours ago!!

This time next year you'll be looking back and laughing about it hopefully!! Chin up! :thumbsup

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Re: Bad news

Post by mckeann » Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:35 pm

I've geniunely been waiting on edge all day, worrying for you both, and so glad to here an update like that, so glad to hear things went as well as they could.

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Re: Bad news

Post by PhilA » Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:36 pm

yeah, S_E isnt ur normal car forum :-)

a shocking day for you both, glad all is peaceful now :-)
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Re: Bad news

Post by andyc » Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:39 pm

Just ping me a text when it's ok to visit him. Does he want some of my blood? What type is he.....he's more than welcome to it......it's full of Tennents lager anyway :?
Has he considered Nitrons for his bed :wink:
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Re: Bad news

Post by c murray » Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:43 pm

thinking of both col :cry: :cry:
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Re: Bad news

Post by mckeann » Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:45 pm

andyc wrote:Just ping me a text when it's ok to visit him. Does he want some of my blood? What type is he.....he's more than welcome to it......


quite, got a wee bit AB pos going spare if its any good.

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Re: Bad news

Post by jen » Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:53 pm

Will do Andy, cheers. :lol: Im actually not sure what blood type he is, I was getting all worked up earlier cos I didnt know, I dont think he even knows!!! The paramedics didnt seem to be as panicked as I was though!! :roll: Im actaully amazed I coped so well, didnt faint, did everything the paramedics and 999 asked, and remained (mostly) calm, except when I had a bout of tears every couple of minutes! It seemed like I was on the phone for an hour when it was only 20 minutes, bloomin roadworks and traffic!! Its amazing that people still block the road when an ambulance is behind with sirens on and tooting the horn as well!! The driver and the paramedic and I were shouting at them all to move!!

Unfortunately, we still have to find out what the damage is, and how long it will affect him for. I'ts just a waiting game now. Hopefully his heart isnt too stressed from today, and he gets through the night with no problems. His bp was steady and heart rate in normal range but fluctuated a lot while we were there, but Im putting that down to the fact he was getting frustrated and confused. Im just glad he's still with us and he still has his arm.

I miss him already though. :cry:

Fingers crossed for good news in the morning.

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Re: Bad news

Post by r055 » Tue Jul 20, 2010 12:00 am

great news Jen :thumbsup

Thanks for the update. you look like you have your bases pretty well covered with ali, nic and family, but you know that the overwhelming majority of us will assist you both if you need it...

Get some rest and update us all tomorrow if you get a chance.

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Re: Bad news

Post by Cisco » Tue Jul 20, 2010 12:01 am

Just read this, nightmare day for you both.

Hope it all looks bit better in the morning.

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Re: Bad news

Post by mwmackenzie » Tue Jul 20, 2010 12:02 am

That's fantastic the OP went well and he ca move and feel his fingers :thumbsup Hope you manage to get a decent sleep and Alan has a very speedy recovery and is home soon for you to pamper him!

Best wishes to you both

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Re: Bad news

Post by bertieduff » Tue Jul 20, 2010 12:59 am

Jeez, Jen, that's horrible enough to read, never mind go through! Sounds like the worst is over- best wishes to you both :(
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Re: Bad news

Post by Jacobite » Tue Jul 20, 2010 1:44 am

Hugs Jen not great to read this when I finally got home after working the Open Golf , Glad the OP went well and he has some use and feeling in his fingers, wishing him a full and speedy recovery
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Re: Bad news

Post by neilj37 » Tue Jul 20, 2010 7:26 am

OMG just found this thread. Hope he recovers fully and you are okay Jen. My thoughts are with you both.
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Re: Bad news

Post by meatball » Tue Jul 20, 2010 8:09 am

Glad to hear the positive update! Looks like the Honda installs won't be delayed too much!

Good effort by Ali and Nicola!

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